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Is it wrong to be keeping your options open
Ok yesterday at work she had a cry whilst we were chatting - her other half has been voilent to her in the past and she has had two misscarriages. I have told her to leave him but she is too scared.…
Replied Nov. 14, 2009
Is it wrong to be keeping your options open
Hi I have not had a chance to speak to her yet - she is a good friend - i have only met her other half a few times but i can see how much he loves her. He might not show it all the time but he does…
Replied Oct. 31, 2009
Is it wrong to be keeping your options open
Thank you responding I have spoken to her We all went out - a work night out last week. She hadnt got any credit on her phone so she used mine to text someone- being naive at the time i assumed sh…
Replied Oct. 30, 2009
Is it wrong to be keeping your options open
Isnt it better to be honest tho rather then to cheat? someone i know is not cheating as such but she is flirting with an older man - her bf is of african decent and she is british, her bf wants to…
Replied Oct. 29, 2009
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Sounds like you are saying that someone is living with a bf/gf who may not be "the one" yet feels obligated to marry him/her and is dragging his/her feet b/c he/she feels more connected to others.
If that's the case it's not fair to the other perso…
Ok yesterday at work she had a cry whilst we were chatting - her other half has been voilent to her in the past and she has had two misscarriages.
I have told her to leave him but she is too scared. she has no one here so i have told her that im th…
Seriously man. It's not as complicated as she makes it seem.
In other words, you're no longer sure about your intended or you're not truly ready to settle yet.
In that case, move on. It's a no-brainer, really.
Hi
I have not had a chance to speak to her yet - she is a good friend - i have only met her other half a few times but i can see how much he loves her.
He might not show it all the time but he does love her. they have both moved to a completely ne…
Well bal, are you more close to him or her? Personally if she is your good friend, pull her to the side and advise her w/o abrasion on damage she may cause her partner, and that honesty is what counts. I tend to discredit alot of people whom are che…
Thank you responding
I have spoken to her
We all went out - a work night out last week.
She hadnt got any credit on her phone so she used mine to text someone- being naive at the time i assumed she was texting her other half. When i read the mess…
In the aforementioned scenerio, she is doing her bf a grand dissservice if she is misleading him to think that she is exclusive,and really isnt but sometimes couples do allow open marriages and/or relationships and if they did then it is mutual.I al…
If she finds more in common with the other person, the one who frees her the most and makes her the most happy and content is usually the one that is right out of her.
Isnt it better to be honest tho rather then to cheat?
someone i know is not cheating as such but she is flirting with an older man - her bf is of african decent and she is british,
her bf wants to marry her however she is playing the field.
I am confused a little by the question, so you are unsure of staying married because of another person is starting to stray? Trust your mind, then your heart. Dont stay married just because you are scared to lose or scared of change, do what will se…
Um....thats the dumbest question ever. If youu feel there is a reason to prolong marriage, maybe there is a reason. It's called following your intuition.
What does everyone think?
Would it be wrong for a male/female to prolonge marriage regardless of living with someone because they are not sure whether it is the right thing to do?
More so because he/she has been talking to other people and seem to…
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- At 9:05pm on October 1, 2009,
Chweetgurl said…
- Hi bal..welcome to Blindian...just asking are u same bal from mixtogether? :o)
- At 5:15pm on October 1, 2009,
Nathan Thompson said… - Thats okay but try responding to our comments on our pages instead of yours lol... :)
- At 4:38pm on October 1, 2009,
Bal said…
- Thank you for the warm welcome guys
- At 4:15pm on October 1, 2009,
Nathan Thompson said…
- welcome Bal glad to have another cool member on board
- At 4:14pm on October 1, 2009,
Stacee said… - Welcome to BNK! Hope you enjoy your stay!
Feel free to browse and comment on any of the many topics in the forum.
- At 4:09pm on October 1, 2009,
Bal said…
- new here so a bit unaware of how this works
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Indeed, Derrick. It would appear that to families such as these, a white bum is better than a black doctor and ironically, this actually makes whites the most liberal and open-minded when it comes to interracial relations with blacks.
That's true, but Hollywood beats Bollywood in diversity of looks. Other than Bipasha Basu, what other dark-skinned actresses are there in Bollywood?
After seeing "Mississippi Masala," and other movies like "Hitch," you would think in 2010 that IR relationships with black men wouldn't THAT taboo. I mean, I could understand if some Asian or other non-black families would be upset if their daughter…
This group supports people's choice to have an arranged marriage but are against the oppressive practice of forced marriage.
I hate when Native Americans are called Indians it's incorrect.
She is actually dark,but she applies makeup to make herself appear lighter.But she's gorgeous either way.
Bollywood beats Hollywood when it comes to beauty and no doubt Aishwarya Rai is the most beautiful woman in the world.
I love Aishwarya Rai Bachan
This is why kids don't need to have kids.
I can't speak for all Indians.Honestly I think you will encounter everything you can possibly think of and that may include stares,racism,etc.But you will also meet some great,nice.India is diverse and so are the people,so I can't speak for all of t…
First of all what is this chick doing getting drunk like that? Pakistan and other islamic countries treat women worse than cattle in their countries,so when women go out to other countries they don't know how to handle that freedom and they go crazy…
That is a very uncomfortable way to sit on a chair!
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